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Learn from Songs · Unit 10: Relative clauses · A2–B1

The One

A gentle song about the person who is always there when life goes up and down: the one who…, someone who…, the thing that…, the place where…, and anyone / everyone who, with Philo, Sophia, Marcos and Demetria.

Sophia
SOPHIA

Tonight’s singer is from Colombia, and she sings in English and Spanish. This song is about one special person.

Demetria
DEMETRIA

Who?

Sophia
SOPHIA

The one who comforts her when things go wrong. Everybody needs someone like that.

Marcos
MARCOS

I’ve got Philo. He comforts me by giving me grammar exercises.

Before you listen: the song

Barranquilla, Colombia, and Miami, 2001

Shakira was born in Barranquilla, Colombia, in 1977. She wrote her first song when she was eight and signed her first record contract at thirteen. For years she sang only in Spanish.

In 2001 she made her first album in English, Laundry Service. She learned English to write the songs herself. “The One”, written with Glen Ballard, was the sixth and last single from the album. In the video, she ends up singing in the rain, looking up at the sky.

In the song, life goes up and down. When she is sad or tired, there is one person who comforts her and makes her feel safe. He is the one she needs, and she is thankful.

Who is the one who is always there for you?

Listen: the one

Philo
PHILO

Listen once. How does she feel when things go wrong? What does “the one” do for her?

Sophia
SOPHIA

Then answer Section A.

The one who, someone who

Marcos
MARCOS

He’s the one who comforts her. Everybody needs someone who listens.

Sophia
SOPHIA

the one / someone / anyone / everyone + who for people: Anyone who wants to come is welcome. We use who (or that) because it is a person.

The thing that, the place where

Demetria
DEMETRIA

Music is the thing that makes me happy. The library is the place where I feel safe.

Sophia
SOPHIA

the thing / something / everything + that for things. the place where for places.

Without the pronoun

Philo
PHILO

He’s the one she needs (= the one that she needs).

Sophia
SOPHIA

When there is another subject after it (she), we can leave out who / that: the one (that) I love, the person (who) I call.

Sophia’s comparison: Jonathan and David

Philo
PHILO

When King Saul was angry with David, his son Jonathan was the one who warned him and protected him. The Bible says Jonathan loved David as his own soul.

Sophia
SOPHIA

And Achilles and Patroclus: Patroclus was the one who could always calm Achilles down.

Demetria
DEMETRIA

So “the one” doesn’t have to be a boyfriend. It can be a friend.

Sophia’s summary

Words and formsUseExample
the one / someone + whopeopleHe’s the one who comforts her.
anyone / everyone + whoall peopleAnyone who wants to come is welcome.
the thing / something + thatthingsMusic is the thing that makes me happy.
the place whereplacesthe place where I feel safe
the one (that) she needsno pronoun before a new subjectHe’s the one she needs.

Practice

Listen to the song for Section A, then do the rest. Press “Check my answers” at the end. You can try again as many times as you like.

A · Listen: the song

Listen to the song and choose the best answer.

1. How does life go in the song?

2. What does “the one” do?

3. How does she feel about him?

4. Where is Shakira from?

5. What was special about Laundry Service?

6. How does the video end?

B · Grammar and vocabulary

Write the missing word or words.

7. He’s the one comforts her.

8. Anyone wants to come is welcome.

9. Music is the thing makes me happy.

10. The library is the place I feel safe.

11. She needs someone listens to her.

12. He’s the one she . (need)

C · Right or wrong?

Is the sentence correct English?

13. “He’s the one which comforts her.”

14. “Everyone who came to the party had fun.”

15. “This is the place where I was born.”

16. “She’s the one who I love her.”

Talk and write

Discussion and writing

The one. Tell a partner about three people: the one who makes me laugh, the one who helps me, the one I call when…

Discuss. 1. Why do you think Shakira wanted to write in English herself? 2. Can a friend be “the one”? 3. What do you do when someone you love is sad?

Write (80–100 words). My “one”. Write about a person who is always there for you. Use the one who, someone who, the thing that, the place where.