Tonight’s song was written on a railway platform in the north of England by a young American, very far from home.

Learn from Songs · Unit 7: Past habits and memories · B1
A song about being far from home: be used to + -ing (accustomed), get used to (becoming accustomed), and how they differ from used to + verb (past habits), plus I wish I was / were…, with Philo, sent to Rome for three months.

Tonight’s song was written on a railway platform in the north of England by a young American, very far from home.

Homesick?

Very homesick. Every town on his tour looked the same, and all he wanted was to go home.

I’d be homesick without my mother’s cooking.
Widnes, England, 1965
In 1965, the young American singer Paul Simon was living in England, playing small folk clubs. One night, after a concert in the north, he was waiting for a train at Widnes station, missing his girlfriend Kathy, who was in London. He started writing this song on a scrap of paper. Today there is a plaque on the platform.
He recorded it with his school friend Art Garfunkel, and in 1966 it became one of Simon & Garfunkel’s first hits.
In the song, the singer describes the life of a travelling musician: another town, another stage, the same songs every night, people he doesn’t know. He isn’t used to it, and he can’t get used to it. He wishes he were going home, where someone is waiting for him.
Home is where someone is waiting.
Listen: far from home

Listen once. Where is the singer? How does he feel about his life on tour? Where does he want to be?

Then answer Section A.
Be used to: accustomed

Philo isn’t used to living in a noisy city. Romans are used to the noise.

be used to + -ing / noun = it’s normal for you, you are accustomed: I’m used to getting up early. She’s used to the cold. Here to is a preposition, so it’s followed by -ing, not the base verb!
Get used to: becoming accustomed

He’ll get used to it. He’s getting used to eating porridge.

get used to + -ing / noun = slowly become accustomed: It’s hard at first, but you’ll get used to it. I’m getting used to my new school.
Three different things!

I used to walk by the sea. I’m used to walking. I’m getting used to walking in Rome.

used to + base verb = a past habit (not now). be used to + -ing = accustomed (now). get used to + -ing = becoming accustomed. And I wish I were / was + place for a wish about now: I wish I were at home.
Sophia’s comparison: by the rivers of Babylon

Our psalm: by the rivers of Babylon we sat down and wept, when we remembered Zion. How can we sing the Lord’s song in a strange land?

And Odysseus, on Calypso’s beautiful island, where he could have lived for ever, sat every day on the shore, looking at the sea, longing for the smoke rising from the chimneys of Ithaca.

So being homesick is the oldest feeling in the world.
Sophia’s summary
| Words and forms | Use | Example |
|---|---|---|
| used to + base verb | past habit, not now | I used to live in Rome. |
| be used to + -ing / noun | accustomed (normal for you) | I’m used to getting up early. |
| get used to + -ing / noun | becoming accustomed | You’ll get used to it. |
| I wish I were / was… | a wish about now | I wish I were at home. |
| homesick, on tour, homeward bound | vocabulary | He was homesick on tour. |
Listen to the song for Section A, then do the rest. Press “Check my answers” at the end. You can try again as many times as you like.
Listen to the song and choose the best answer.
1. Where was the song written?
2. How does the singer feel?
3. What is his life like?
4. Where does he want to be?
5. What is “homeward bound”?
6. Who sings with Paul Simon?
Write the missing word or words.
7. I’m not used to up early. (get)
8. You’ll soon get used it.
9. I to walk by the sea every evening. (past habit)
10. He’s getting used to in Rome. (live)
11. I wish I at home now. (be)
12. Romans are used to the . (loud sound)
Is the sentence correct English?
13. “I’m used to get up early.”
14. “She used to live in Paris, but now she lives in Rome.”
15. “I can’t get used to drive on the left.”
16. “You’ll get used to the weather.”
Discussion and writing
Getting used to it. Imagine you move to a new country. Tell your partner what you are used to, what you’re not used to, and what you think you’ll get used to.
Discuss. 1. Have you ever been homesick? When? 2. What helps when you’re far from home? 3. What is “home” for you: a place, or people?
Write (100–120 words). A letter from far away. Write home from a new city: what you used to do at home, what you’re not used to yet, and what you’re getting used to.