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Learn from Songs · Unit 9d: Wishes, regrets and preferences · B1

Come Back… Be Here

Taylor Swift’s song about missing someone who is far away: imperatives (come back, be here), I wish you were here, miss / lose / lack, and the present continuous for temporary situations, with Philo, Sophia, Marcos and Demetria.

Sophia
SOPHIA

Tonight’s song is about someone who has gone far away, across the world. The singer has only just met him, and already she misses him. Come back, she sings. Be here.

Demetria
DEMETRIA

That’s how I felt when my brother went to Rome.

Sophia
SOPHIA

Then you’ll understand the song. And its grammar: imperatives, wishes, and the verb miss.

Marcos
MARCOS

I miss my lunch.

Before you listen: the song

Los Angeles, 2012

“Come Back… Be Here” is on Taylor Swift’s album Red (2012). She wrote it with Dan Wilson, the singer of the band Semisonic, who also wrote songs with Adele.

Swift said she wrote it about the strange feeling of meeting someone you like and then having to say goodbye because one of you is travelling to the other side of the world. The song is in the “deluxe” edition of the album, and many fans think it is one of her most honest songs.

In the song, the person she likes is far away. She misses him and wishes he were here. She asks him to come back.

Distance can’t stop the heart.

Listen: far away

Philo
PHILO

Listen once. Where is the person she likes? What does she ask him to do?

Sophia
SOPHIA

Then answer Section A.

Imperatives

Marcos
MARCOS

Come back. Be here. Don’t go. Stay with me.

Sophia
SOPHIA

The imperative is the infinitive without to; the negative is Don’t + infinitive. Be is used too: Be careful! Be quiet! Don’t be late!

I wish you were here

Demetria
DEMETRIA

I wish you were here. I wish I could see you. I wish you didn’t live so far away.

Sophia
SOPHIA

wish + past simple / were for the present: I wish you were here (but you aren’t). Wish you were here is a common phrase on postcards!

Miss, lose, lack

Philo
PHILO

I miss you. (I feel sad you’re not here.) I missed the boat. (I was too late.) I lost my ring. (I can’t find it.)

Sophia
SOPHIA

miss = feel sad without someone / be too late for / fail to hit. lose = not have any more. lack = not have enough. Spanish speakers: “I miss you” is te echo de menos, not te pierdo!

Present continuous for temporary situations

Marcos
MARCOS

He’s living in Rome this year. She’s staying with her aunt. I’m working nights this month.

Sophia
SOPHIA

be + -ing for temporary situations around now: He’s living in Rome (for a while). Compare: He lives in Rome (permanently).

Sophia’s comparison: the songs of exile

Philo
PHILO

By the rivers of Babylon, the psalmist says, we sat down and wept when we remembered Zion. We hung our harps on the willows. How can we sing the Lord’s song in a strange land?

Sophia
SOPHIA

And Ovid, the poet, has just been sent away by Augustus to Tomis, on the Black Sea, far from Rome. They say he writes letters in verse every month, begging to come back.

Sophia’s summary

Words and formsUseExample
infinitive / Don’t + infinitiveimperativesCome back! Don’t go!
wish + were / past simplethe presentI wish you were here.
missfeel sad without / be too late forI miss you. I missed the boat.
lose / lacknot have any more / not have enoughI lost my keys.
be + -ingtemporary situationsHe’s living in Rome this year.

Practice

Listen to the song for Section A, then do the rest. Press “Check my answers” at the end. You can try again as many times as you like.

A · Listen: the song

Listen to the song and choose the best answer.

1. Where is the person she likes?

2. What does she ask him to do?

3. How long has she known him?

4. Who wrote the song with her?

5. Which album is it on?

6. Which edition of the album is it on?

B · Grammar and vocabulary

Write the missing word or words.

7. back! (imperative)

8. I wish you here. (be)

9. I you so much. (feel sad without you)

10. I’m sorry I’m late. I the boat. (was too late for)

11. He’s in Rome this year. (live, temporary)

12. be late! (negative imperative)

C · Right or wrong?

Is the sentence correct English?

13. “I lose you very much.” (= I feel sad without you)

14. “Don’t be late!”

15. “I wish you are here.”

16. “She’s staying with her aunt this month.”

Talk and write

Discussion and writing

Postcard. Write a postcard to someone far away: where you are, what you’re doing (present continuous), and wish you were here.

Discuss. 1. Have you ever missed someone who was far away? 2. Is it easier to stay in touch today than in the past? 3. Which is harder: leaving or being left?

Write (100–120 words). A letter to someone far away. Use three imperatives, I wish you were…, miss, and the present continuous for temporary situations.